What I get from this is mostly that nobody knows why some things appeal to boys and some things appeal to girls. Not even cartoonists.
I mean, plenty people would like a Lego juice bar. That’s not a deal-breaker. It could just as easily be a ponytail under the space helmet as a crew-cut.
I think what she’s really getting at is that what is necessary is options. There has to be inclusiveness, which really does require exclusiveness. Women do not feel comfortable in exclusively male spaces unless invited, and vice versa, or something, now that we know that gender is whatever you say it is so long as you can get other people to agree.